Joint Stag & Hen (Sten) Party Ideas

Looking for a wild twist on the traditional split parties? Consider a Sten Party – a fun, combined stag and hen party where everyone celebrates together! Bistro Live is the perfect venue for this kind of joint gathering.

Here’s how to plan the ultimate Sten night:

Why Go Joint?

A Sten party brings all your friends into one epic celebration. Your bride squad and groom squad can mingle, double the dancefloor crowd, and share hilarious memories. It’s especially great if most of your friends already hang out together, but it’s also great for those who haven’t met before. Think of it as one big “last hurrah” before the wedding.

Bistro Live’s vibe suits both sides: we have pop hits for the guys and party anthems for the gals, plus everything in between. One reviewer on Bistro Live’s site summed up the magic: “Across our three vibrant venues — Leicester, Nottingham, and Milton Keynes — we serve up incredible party nights packed with live music, DJ sets…”. Everyone will find something they love, from club classics to cheesy sing-alongs.

Planning the Combined Party

• Music Mix: We have all sorts of themed DJ parties to choose from at Bistro Live, and we ensure that there is something for everyone… We have 80’s, 90’s and the latest hits all wrapped into one.

• Dress Code or Theme: Sometimes Sten parties choose a neutral theme (like “black tie and glitter” or “European casino night”) so both sides feel included. Or do half-Hen half-Stag themes – half your group in pink and half in blue! Bistro Live’s photo ops love either way.

• Booking: Treat it like one big event. Reserve enough seats for all. You can use the unique payment link to collect funds for both parts of the group. It avoids confusion since everyone pays their way.

• Roles: You might have a Maid of Honour and Best Man co-hosting. Split tasks: one focus on entertainment (games, photos) and the other on logistics (timing, announcements). Remember to balance the fun – maybe the Best Man gives a cheeky speech, and the Maid of Honour leads a bridal toast.

Entertainment and Amenities

Bistro Live will roll out the red carpet for your entire group. We provide:

• Live Band or DJ: Entertainment that transitions smoothly from “Anything but a Wedding” singalongs to “Should I Stay or Should I Go.” Whether your friends prefer a band or an energetic DJ, Bistro has options.

• 3-Course Feast: Fuel everyone up with our diverse menu. We can cater to dietary requirements, so nobody goes hungry during the dance-offs.

• Full Table Service: Drink orders? Just flag us down (literally…  wave one of our drink flags) as you continue the party. We’ll bring rounds of beers, cocktails, and shots right to your table.

• Party Games: We have plenty of party packages that you can add on to your booking. Chat with your group and decide if there are any extras you want to add to your booking.

Making It Memorable

Capture the night with group photos on the dance floor. Use Bistro Live’s neon backdrops for your pictures. Share a toast: cheers to friendship, adventure, and a once-in-a-lifetime night. 

Book the Ultimate Sten Party

Ready to unite the wedding parties? Booking with Bistro Live is straightforward. Visit our website, select Leicester, Nottingham, or Milton Keynes, and pick your date and size. Our system even lets you send the group payment link directly, so everyone can pay easily.

There’s no tradition that says stag and hen must be separate – break the mold with a Sten night at Bistro Live. Get in touch with our party planners today, and we’ll help you craft a night that everyone will rave about for years.