What Is a Sten Do? (And Why Everyone’s Doing It)

What Is a Sten Do? Ideas and Activities for Couples Who Party Together

Heard of a sten do and wondering what the heck it is? You're not alone – but you're about to love it. A sten do is the genius mash-up of a stag and a hen party, designed for couples who want to celebrate together, not apart.

Whether you're saving money, blending friend groups, or just love a joint party vibe, here’s everything you need to know about what a sten do is, plus brilliant ideas and activities to get the party started.

💍 What Is a Sten Do? (And Why Everyone’s Doing It)

A sten do is short for STag + hEN – a joint pre-wedding celebration for the bride, groom, and all their best mates. It’s perfect for:

• Couples with lots of mutual friends

• Mixed friendship groups

• Anyone avoiding the cliché hen/stag stereotypes

• Brides or grooms who want to share the spotlight (cute!)

🎉 Best Sten Do Ideas and Activities

Ready to plan a night that suits both sides of the aisle? Try these sten do classics that bring everyone together.

1. Themed Party Night

Pick a theme that works for both of you – think:

• Great Gatsby (classy and fun – check out our next blog!)

• Festival vibes (flower crowns + glitter for all)

• Back to School (naughty but nostalgic)

Want it planned and ready-made? At Bistro Live, we live for party themes – just bring your costumes, and we’ll do the rest.

2. Couples vs. Friends Games Night

Split into “Team Bride” and “Team Groom” for hilarious drinking games, karaoke battles or even a quiz about the couple.

3. Cocktail Masterclass

Bond over mixing your own signature drinks – or challenge each other to a mix-off.

4. Dance & Dinner Party at Bistro Live

Enjoy a full 3-course meal, followed by live music and a wild night of dancing. It’s the easiest way to give your gang a night to remember, without splitting up or venue-hopping. Check out our menu for inspo.

💡 Why Sten Dos Work So Well

• You only plan one event = less stress

• Everyone gets to meet before the big day

• Keeps things inclusive and modern

• Doubles the fun, energy and memories

💌 Let Bistro Live Plan the Perfect Sten Do

Want to celebrate together, with zero planning stress? Bistro Live has the food, tunes, dancing and vibe to suit every crowd. Whether you're a party-hard bride or a low-key groom, our team can tailor the night to suit you both.

👉 Explore our Hen Party Packages
👉 Or Get in Touch and tell us your dream sten-do style

🎊 Celebrate Love. Celebrate Together.

So now you know: what a sten do is, why it’s brilliant, and exactly where to throw one. Make it loud, make it fun, and most of all, make it you.
Ready to plan? Let’s do it!